Today marks one year that I have lived in Kosovo! It is hard, in some ways, to believe that a year ago today, I moved to Kosovo. I met a bunch of strangers at Dulles Airport, boarded a plane with them, and have been with them ever since. Only now, I call them my friends.
Lately, I have noticed a big shift in how I feel about being here. While I still feel like a foreigner, Kosovo no longer feels foreign to me. Does that make sense?
I think having lived here through all four seasons has made Kosovo seem like less unfamiliar. In some ways, it feels like I just arrived here. But then, I remind myself I have sweated through a summer, hiked in the colors of fall, shivered through a snowy winter, and marveled at a long, luxurious spring.
I also feel less like some weird American living among strangers. Living with a host family, day-in and day-out, is less exhausting than it used to be. Boundaries are better set, roles are more clearly defined, and I have grown more used to being a part of life here.
In December, I wrote a post about how I have mentally divided my time here into quarters. By my own counting method, I have now completed two quarters.
My second quarter offered two, distinct parts. The first four months, I was miserable. The last two months were happy, and filled with travel, and friends.
I am thankful to have come out of the blues I dealt with this winter. I suspected my first winter would be tough, and it was. But then the weather changed, and I got to go to Rome an old friend, and my feelings shifted.
As much as I love the friends I have made during the Peace Corps, those relationships are new. It was nice to spend time with someone who has known me for nearly a decade. Thanks for your support, Nicole.
I figure now would be a good time to check in with the Peace Corps “chart of emotions.” (I don’t know what it’s actually called.)
So right now (months 11-14), I can expect to feel:
- Impatience with self, program, system (Hmm, I think I actually felt more of this a few months ago.)
- Place blame on the program (Again, I think I felt this a few months ago.)
- Constant complaining (A few months ago … )
- Lethargy (Yes. I definitely have less interest in everything … teaching, blog writing, crochet.)
- Haughtiness with new trainees (HAHAHA. I haven’t met them yet, but I can see myself feeling this way. These new people, they don’t know what they’re in for!)
At times, the idea of living in Kosovo for another year seems daunting … when do I get to go back to a Western life? But when I think of it as 1/2 of my service being gone, I realize there is still so much more I want to do.
Here are some of my personal and professional goals for my coming service year:
- Finish the grant for my school and (hopefully) be awarded funds
- Host workshops this summer (narrative writing and essay writing are the plans for right now)
- Present to Peace Corps volunteers in Albania about starting a poetry competition there
- Help my friend organize the national poetry competition in Kosovo this fall
- Start volunteering at an orphanage in Pristina this fall — I found out last week that my application was approved! I am meeting with one of the orphanage directors this week. I’m hoping this new opportunity fills the social work hole in my life.
- Possibly do another secondary project for the fall (most likely, teach another English Club at my school)
- Continue teaching. This is kind of obvious, since teaching is my primary role here, but I suppose I should add it to the list.
- Get my stuff together and help my friends with their “Faces of Kosovo” project
- TRAVEL THIS SUMMER! There are so many places I want to go in Europe. It’s hard to narrow them down. But if I had to list everywhere I want to go, they would be: Tirana/southern Albania, Greece, Bratislava, Montenegro, Serbia, Romania, Bulgaria, Prague, Vienna, Croatia, Bruge, England/Paris (again), Florence … SO MANY PLACES!
- Travel around Kosovo. There are still places in Kosovo I want to see, including Mitrovice (major city), Brezovice (skiing), Dragash/Opoje (conservative mountain villages), Skenderaj (Adem Jashari memorial), Rahovec (wine), Batilava Lake (sounds pretty), the Bear Sanctuary (uh, bears) …
- Get my face painted like a Kosovar bride … This is an experience I really wanted to have while living in Kosovo. I’ve checked into it, and the price would be 150 Euro. That’s a lot of money for me right now … almost all of my spending money for a month. I need to think about it some more …
- Continue writing this blog regularly, and enter the Blog It Home contest this fall, assuming Peace Corps still hosts it
- Learn to speak better Shqip (This is not going to happen. It’s just not. I know I’m going to leave service wishing I could speak fluent Albanian, but I won’t.)
- Continue to build/strengthen my friendships here. I have made an effort to have a breadth of friendships here, to try to be friendly with my entire cohort. However, I feel like I don’t have a depth of friendship yet. It would be nice to have a “best friend” in the Peace Corps.
- Think about writing a second grant for my school
- Continue to consider options when I finish Peace Corps. I’ll likely return to social work, but where/in what capacity remains to be seen …